20 Feb What To Do When Thoughts Pop Up During Meditation
Everybody can relate to thoughts popping up during a meditation session. At times the mind is very restless and our attention is continually distracted by other things. These can include external objects like sounds, but also internal distractions such as memories of the past, fantasies about the future, or incessant chatter about what’s happening in the present. Such thoughts are often accompanied by disturbing emotions, such as attachment (grasping at pleasant experiences); anger or hatred (obsessing over what someone did that hurt or irritated us); fear; doubt; jealousy or depression. Normally, we just let the mind run like this without trying to control it, so mental wandering has become a deeply ingrained habit.
Giving up a habit is not easy, but we should recognize that this one – this mental excitement, as is called – is the very opposite of meditation. As long as we are busy running in circles on the surface of the mind, we will never penetrate to its depths and never develop the concentration we need for perceiving reality.
There are a number of methods for countering mental excitement. One is to focus firmly on the breath and let the mind become as calm and even as the natural rhythm of your breathing. Every time your attention wanders, bring it back to the breath. Observe whatever thoughts and feelings arise without getting involved in them; recall that they are just waves of your mind, rising and falling. But if your mind is strongly caught up in a disturbing emotion such as attachment or anger, it might be necessary to spend some time working with one or more of the antidotes to these (see below). Once you have regained control over your mind you can return to the main object of the session.
An effective method from the Tibetan tradition for calming the mind is known as the Nine-Round Breathing Practice. This can be used at the beginning of a meditation session, or in the middle of a session if your mind gets out of control.
- For the first three breaths, breathe in through the right nostril and out through the left. If you wish, you can use forefingers to close the left nostril while you breathe in and to close the right, with your thumb, when you breathe out.
- For the next three breaths, breathe in through the left nostril and out through the right. Again, you can use your forefinger to close the nostril you are not using.
- For the last three breaths, breathe in through both nostrils and out through both.
With each breath, keep your mind focused on the breath and on the sensations you can feel at the nostril as the breath goes in and out. Do not let your mind be distracted by thoughts or anything else. You can repeat the nine rounds several times if you wish, then return to your main meditation practice.
If mental restlessness is a recurring problem, check your posture. The spine should be very straight and the head tilted slightly forward to the chin tucked slightly in – the mind tends to be more restless when the head is raised too high. Reducing the amount of light in the room could also help, as bright light can stir up thoughts and feelings.
Patience is essential in dealing with a busy mind. Don’t be upset with yourself if you can’t keep your attention on the object of meditation. It takes time and persistent practice to learn to slow down and gain some control over the mind, so be easy on yourself.
I hope that cleared up all doubts about thoughts interfering with meditation. Remember that it is very natural for thoughts to pop-up – that is the nature of the mind. You need to practice regularly to train your mind to manage your thoughts better. For more distractions related to sleepiness or dullness, physical discomfort or noise, do check this out!
Nehita is a mindfulness expert who writes extensively on lifestyle management, wellness and ways to lead a healthier and a happier life. She is a part of Aware’s expert team on meditation. She is also an avid artist who spends most her time dribbling amazing stories through art.
References have been taken from: “How To Meditate by Kathleen McDonald”;Image Credits- www.yogaoutlet.com